Jake, this was beautifully written and deeply moving.
Your reflection reminded me how growing up isn’t just about finding your own footing—it’s about learning to see your parents in full, with all their cracks and complexity. That shift from “they should’ve known better” to “maybe they were just trying their best” hits hard. It’s not about excusing everything, but it is about embracing the humanity in the people who raised us. You’ve not only honored your parents—you’ve invited us all to pause, look inward, and maybe reach out with a little more softness.
I am so glad you found a connection here. Much love and thank you so much for the kind words. I am trying to be more personal here, this was quite a post to make as a part of that push!
Jake, this was beautifully written and deeply moving.
Your reflection reminded me how growing up isn’t just about finding your own footing—it’s about learning to see your parents in full, with all their cracks and complexity. That shift from “they should’ve known better” to “maybe they were just trying their best” hits hard. It’s not about excusing everything, but it is about embracing the humanity in the people who raised us. You’ve not only honored your parents—you’ve invited us all to pause, look inward, and maybe reach out with a little more softness.
I am so glad you found a connection here. Much love and thank you so much for the kind words. I am trying to be more personal here, this was quite a post to make as a part of that push!